If you can't get past yourself and see that we all have biases and we need to check ourselves to make sure we are not doing more harm than good, then leave the children alone to be adopted by a family that will take the time to love them properly. . Nothing infuriates me more than people being so full of themselves that they rather ruin a child's life to be "right" than to humble themselves and do better. . Adoption can be hard but remember, we as the parents chose this life...the kids didn't choose us! It is our responsibility to make sure that our children are safe from. harm and that includes even from us, the parents. . #racism #predjudice #biases #implicitbias #adoption #fostertoadopt #fostering #adopting #transracialadoption #dobetter #burnmybiscuits #raisingcultures