One of the most freeing things you can learn is that you can’t control other people. But you can control something way more important: how much access someone has to you. You get to choose how much time, energy, and emotional real estate you give them. When you say “Let Them,” you’re not excusing bad behavior. You’re finally telling yourself the truth about what’s happening. And then comes the part that actually changes your life: Let Me decide what I’m willing to tolerate. Let Me choose how I show up. Let Me act in alignment with my values. Your power has never been in changing other people. Your power is in how you respond, what you allow, and where you put your energy. Hear more from my segment with @norahodonnell on @cbssundaymorning on the CBS Sunday Morning YouTube channel at youtube.com/@CBSSundayMorning #melrobbins #letthem #letthemtheory #letme