Three years ago today we renewed our vows. Not because our marriage was perfect. But because it wasn’t. Here’s your reminder (and mine) that marriage is not a fairytale. It’s not 50/50. It’s 100% from each person - every single day. Even on the days you could list a hundred reasons to walk away. Especially on those days. Marriage isn’t about perfection. It’s about choosing each other in the lowest valleys. It’s about looking at your person when life feels heavy and remembering why you chose them in the first place. We have walked through things that should have broken us. Infertility. Adoption. Heartache. A vow renewal. A miracle pregnancy. Twelve years of growing up together. And somehow, every hard season has rooted us deeper instead of tearing us apart. We still don’t have a perfect marriage. We never will. But when I look at my husband and the family we’ve built, I have never felt more grateful for this beautifully imperfect life. To truly love someone is to know their flaws. To kn...