“What’s the difference between ‘I like you’ and ‘I love you’?”
The Buddha once answered:
“When you like a flower, you pluck it.
When you love a flower, you water it every day.”
We live in a world of plucking —
Quick hits.
One-night stands.
Endless scrolls.
Short-term thrills.
But love… real love… is watering.
Daily presence.
Daily service.
Daily intimacy built not just on passion,
but on patience, presence, and shared experience.
It’s not manufactured.
It’s not demanded.
It grows—
because we tend to it.
Love is built.
Brick by brick.
Day by day.
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