One of the biggest mistakes a man can make is making a woman the center of his existence and abandoning his mission, goals, and purpose to serve her.
When a man does this, it usually means he has nothing of his own that he is building. No direction. No vision. No fire. So he replaces purpose with obsession and calls it love.
At first, women enjoy the attention. They enjoy being prioritized. They enjoy being placed on a pedestal. But over time, respect erodes. Attraction fades. Because when she looks down from that pedestal, all she sees is a man at her feet instead of a man walking his own path.
No woman wants to be the meaning of your life. She wants to be a part of it.
Your mission comes first. Your purpose comes first. Your goals come first.
And if someone fits into that equation, they walk beside you, not above you.
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