Two broken people can’t lean on each other. Not because they don’t love each other… But because you can’t build stability on instability. When both people are wounded, the relationship becomes: keeping score, blame, resentment, pressure. And here’s the hard truth: your emotional work is yours. You don’t get to outsource your healing to the person you’re dating. You don’t get to lean on someone else and call it love. Because if you need them to regulate you… you’ll eventually resent them for failing at a job that was never theirs. Heal yourself. Take responsibility for your emotions. Then love becomes a choice — not a dependency. #healing #relationships #codependency #selfawareness #innerwork