If you have to resort to putting yourself on a dating app, understand what you’re really admitting. In real life, something about the way you show up isn’t attracting people naturally. And before people start crying about “busy schedules” and “modern dating,” let’s keep it real, plenty of busy people still meet quality partners in real life. Dating apps are a marketplace. A digital meat grinder. A public catalogue of humans. So if you’re holding yourself to “high standards” while digging through a garbage can, don’t act surprised when you pull out trash. You can’t demand gold while shopping in a bargain bin. And if you’ve made it to a certain age and you’re still single, it’s time to stop blaming the whole world and start asking the harder question. What is it about me that’s repelling commitment? Because the longer you avoid that question, the longer you stay stuck in the same cycle. Swipe. Talk. Ghost. Repeat. At some point, it’s not bad luck. It’s pattern. #UnfilteredWisdo...