People’s words only hold power when the person holds value to you.
If someone you do not care about rejects you, it is irrelevant. But when it comes from someone you admire or desire, it cuts deeper. Not because their words are stronger, but because their position in your life is.
If a random stranger calls you a name, it means nothing. But if someone you respect calls you an idiot, it lands differently. Not because the words are true, but because you value them.
The problem is not the words. The problem is the meaning you attach to the person speaking.
Stop handing over emotional power to people who have not earned it. Not every voice deserves a reaction. Not every opinion deserves space in your head.
The weight of a word comes from the weight you give the person who said it.
Not everyone should matter that much.
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