Before healing the belonging wound, I was constantly shape-shifting.
Reading the room.
Softening my voice.
Smiling when I wanted to scream.
Saying “yes” so I wouldn’t be left out.
Confusing connection with compliance.
I didn’t even know I was performing it just felt like survival.
But this work… the nervous system work, the parts work, the soul work it unhooked me from the lie that I had to earn my place.
Now?
I find ease body.
You don’t need to be chosen you choose you
You can walk into any space and feel rooted, even if you're the only one like me.
I don’t shrink or overexplain.
I don’t chase energy that doesn’t feel safe.
I know who I am.
I know what I carry.
And I trust that the spaces meant for me will feel like breath, not tension.
This is what healing the belonging wound looks like.
Not loud. Not performative.
Just… real. Regulated. Home.
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