The truth about people pleasing 👇 It is getting in the way of the intimacy you desire. Full stop. That sense of safety you have cultivated through people pleasing? It’s an illusion. When you prioritize being liked, you abandon yourself…and with that, the opportunity to feel truly known and seen. People pleasing does not make you a better person or more chill…and it does not bring the connection or security you think it does. It is self-erasure & self-abandonment dressed up as safety. The relationships you are longing for require your presence, not your performance. They welcome your needs, your no, your desire, your truth, even when it is vulnerable and messy. You do not need to make yourself more “palatable” or easier to love. You are already worthy as you are—in your fullness, your wildness, your messiness, your intensity. All of it. Want to learn how to take up space and know what you want? How to communicate your needs without constantly worrying about everyone else’s perception o...