Your people pleasing patterns are costing you intimacy 🫣 If you are a queer person, chances are you associate speaking your truth with rejection… because we learned from an early age that having the desires we had was wrong or bad. If you… 👀
→ suppress your needs, desires, and truth just to keep love around 🤐🫶
→ dim your intensity because you are scared it will push people away ❤️‍🔥🫥
→ pretend you do not have needs so you seem “easy” to love 😌🎭
→ overgive to the point of self-abandonment 🧎‍♀️💸 And who can blame you?? This has been your survival strategy from a veryyyy young age—your system learned: stay agreeable, play small and keep love close. But true intimacy cannot grow where parts of you are hidden. 
Your desires are the roadmap. And when they get dampened, so does your power…so as a result, connection dwindles and you’re probably left wondering why you’re always left feeling unseen, misunderstood or abandoned by those you want close. ❌ Healing this is not about becomin...