Turns out being the chill girl was NOT it 🙅‍♀️ I used to think that fawning to my partners, people pleasing, shape-shifting and silencing my truth would make me more loveable, more palatable and make lovers want to “stay.” Damn, was I wrong 🤯 It created even more space, distance and frustration when what I realllllly yearned for was soul-merging intimacy. If you relate and are ready to finally get what you want in love, relationship, friendships by being who you truly are….and by being met by people who actually see you, understand you and love ALL of you, comment “NO CHILL” below 😉 #relationships #intimacy #somatics #comingout #nochill #dating #selflove #fawning #healing