In my self-respect era… long gone are the days where I’d cancel plans & hobbies for a man. I’m prioritising my business, my hobbies & female friends over romance. Filling my own cup with pole practice , the gym, brunch dates, dog walks with the girls & all the things that light me up the most 🩵. Why? Because I refuse to centre my life around a man again. I’m no longer going to conveniently slot into a man’s life and live it on his terms. This is another step I’m taking to heal my anxious attachment… This is how I plan to keep our power when I have relationships in future. I’ve realised that I thrive the most when I’m single. I’m the most confident, bubbly & happy version of myself, and that energy needs to be protected! I have always attracted the type of men who feed off that positive energy and drain me of it. So by focusing on replenishing my energy with hobbies etc, I will be less invested in men who are no good for me… a good man will respect you more for not being so a...