If It’s Not A “FUCK YES” It’s A “FUCK NO”⁣ ⁣ As a dating coach, I get asked all the time by clients and friends what they should do about people they feel “meh” about or that they “really like, BUT…” ⁣ ⁣ These statements are usually followed by a monologue of unsolicited justification about why this person is so great… but who are they REALLY trying to convince? HINT: it’s not me. ⁣ ⁣ There are many reasons why these “meh” people might seem appealing.⁣ ⁣ To name a few:⁣ ⁣ 1. Saying no to this “meh” person means being alone for the foreseeable future…⁣ ➡️ Just because you are around people doesn’t mean you aren’t alone. Also, if you’re with the wrong person, you’re probably not fully allowing yourself to be vulnerable and present, and that’s pretty lonely ⁣ ⁣ 2. Technically, there’s no *good reason* for you NOT be head over heels about this person, they’re perfect on paper!⁣ ➡️ What’s perfect on paper doesn’t equal what’s perfect in the real world you actually have to live in. ⁣ ⁣ 3. T...