Nearly 10 years ago, we stood next to each other, in front of our closest family and friends where we made vows to one another and took each other to be wife and wife. And while I may have snuck in a cliched and rosy-colored vow to never go to bed angry and always seal each night with a kiss, our other vows have stood the test of time. And in case you need a reminder… I promised to love you forever and always, knowing you to be your best self, even when you don’t see it. I promised to take turns being the little spoon and the big spoon...but mainly the little spoon. I promised that our future children would grow up in a home where they know how much their parents are in love and they know how much they are loved. You promised to be my best friend and to always listen for my commitment. You promised to always know where we are or how to get to where we’re going....and if not, to be the one to ask for directions. You promised to build a Jewish home with me, teachin...