This is how disorganised attachment blocks your manifestations. When one part of you pulls something in and the other part pushes it away. Your attachment style isn’t just about romance. It shapes how you relate to opportunity, money, visibility, success, and the things you say you want. It dictates how you go after what you need and what you desire. Disorganised attachment is basically two conflicting strategies living inside one body. One part reaches for connection or expansion because it wants safety and love. The other part retreats because it learned that closeness, success or being seen might come with pain, loss of autonomy and on the condition of self-abandonment. So you end up in this push pull dance with the very things you’re trying to call in. I’m doing an incredible course with carmenshasta right now and one of the biggest themes is coherence. If you want the opportunity but fear you can’t hold it… If you want the relationship but fear intimacy… If you want more money ...