❓Is it disrespect or just a cultural difference?
Yesterday on LinkedIn, we talked about subtle signs of disrespect.
I want to bring one example here that I’ve been personally navigating:
📌 When it comes to respect, cultural differences really matter.
For example:
In my Turkish family, saying “we’ll come by later in the afternoon” is completely normal. Just a soft plan. Totally acceptable.
But with my German family?
That would be a huge no-go.
Time = commitment. If you say 15:00, you better mean 15:00.
After 15 years in Germany, I’ve definitely been “Germanized” and I now find it really hard when people can’t stick to time anymore.
Because for me, time and energy are the biggest things we have.
When I commit to a time with people I love, I want to be fully present.
And knowing when helps me plan my day and protect that energy.
What makes it harder:
In Turkish culture, it’s often not okay to say it bothers you you’re expected to tolerate it.
But in Germany, it’s completely ok...
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