Avoidant attachment isn’t about not wanting love. It’s about wanting connection without feeling engulfed by it. To a nervous system wired for distance, space feels safe and dependence feels threatening. That doesn’t make them evil. But it does create a dynamic where one person chases closeness and the other protects independence. Understanding this isn’t about blame. It’s about deciding whether the dynamic works for you. Follow me if you want to understand relationship dynamics without the blame game. #therapy #toxicrelationship #healing #pyschologyinsights #counselling