A father wound is a pattern that forms when a person’s father is controlling, shaming, rejecting, emotionally unavailable or absent. This tells the child that it is not safe to be me. A man with a father wound is a boy who learns to project strength and performs a persona of capability, self-control and independence. Here are 5 signs of Man carrying a father wound. • Identity built around Status: Their work, salary, external appearance and romantic relationships are a key part of their identity. Being alone is uncomfortable. The idea of rest induces guilt. • Emotional Suppression: Feelings are seen as a sign of weakness. “Don’t be weak. Don’t feel. Perform.” They have difficulty naming and expressing their feelings. Vulnerability does not come easily to them and often turns into anger. • Authority Issues: Authority feels threatening. “People with power will either shame me or control me.” So when confronted with authority they either become submissive and seek approval or comple...