“A crush should be like writing something vulgar in the condensation of a car window on a chilly day. It’s juvenile. It’s ridiculous. It reminds you not to take yourself too seriously. Most important, it’s ephemeral — and it should be feeding, not taking away from, your long-lasting relationships.” For #CrushWeek, ejdickson argues that crushing on someone other than your spouse is, in fact, good for your marriage. Drop your take 👇 and read on at the link in bio. Illustration: Kaitlin Brito