There are ways to stop worrying about what people think of you. The first core principle: it’s the orientation you’re going to have with other people. Love other people, but just don’t care what they think about you. That takes maturity to really care for another person while knowing what they’re thinking about you is more their business than yours. Think of it as an inner circle and layers of outer circles. Be very clear about who’s at your round table—people who know who you are, know your scar tissue, know what you’re about. Those are the ones you tune to. The rest, get the filter right. Love them, send them love, wish them well, but no longer be beholden to their opinions of you. Know what the inner circle and outer rings are, then act accordingly. To me, that’s a game changer. #psychology #mindset #mastery #findingmastery #michaelgervais