Want to know a secret? If you want to have the best chance at winning in court, here are 4 things you need to stop doing immediately: 1. Stop over-sharing on social media Cryptic posts, vacation photos during a custody battle, soft-launching new relationships, outright rants. I can take all of that and twist it. Even if it's innocent, assume your account is not private during any kind of legal battle. 2. Stop reacting instantly. That text he sent that gets you fired up? When he baits you and you respond in anger, I know exactly how to use that. The more you do it, the better I can organize the timeline of your reactions to paint you as unstable and volatile. 3. Stop handing over disorganized evidence. Even if you arent an organized person, you need to have your evidence organized chronologically. Random screenshots with no context, text messages without dates and email attachments with no connections will not work in your favor. Judges skim evidence, they don't dig for meaning. ...