As a people pleaser, one of the hardest things I’ve had to learn is being comfortable with making decisions for myself. I moved on autopilot through relationships, friendships, and careers without realizing how they were draining my energy. You will feel guilty, scared, imposter syndrome, like giving up. You will lose friends, what you thought was your dream role, maybe even pivot on your goals. But the peace that comes from choosing yourself is worth every uncomfortable moment. It doesn’t feel empowering at first. It feels lonely and confusing. Until one day you realize you’re no longer exhausted from living a life that wasn’t yours. So learn the new thing, start content creation, pivot into a new role, take a trip, and do the thing that makes you feel “selfish” #growthmindsets #peoplepleaser #personalgrowth #doit #lifelessons