13 years ago. Remembering the first moments like they were yesterday. I was working at Commonwealth Bank when I started noticing things… little things. Forgetting routes she used to know by heart. Repeating stories. Getting unusually nervous.
This means she was just 52 when we started seeing the signs of early-onset dementia. But that doesn’t mean it started then. Dementia often creeps in slowly, quietly, and by the time it’s visible, it’s already rooted.
When Mommy became afraid to drive in Nassau, I knew something was wrong. She drove people around the U.S. confidently. That fear? That hesitation? That wasn’t her. Thirteen years. That’s how long it’s been since I first noticed.
Thirteen years of watching my mom slowly disappear, not all at once, but in pieces.
And grief? It doesn’t wait until the end. It lives in the in-between. It visits you in grocery aisles, in forgotten birthdays, no more talks, in blank stares that once held your name.
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