Things I’d tell you as your big cousin. Don’t be mad at me, I love you enough to tell you the truth.👇🏾 Let them be wrong about you. Not everybody is trying to attack you, some people are holding you accountable. Stop taking that ex back. Believe him the first time. Go to bed earlier and drink your water. Stop asking everybody for advice before going to God. Invest in education. Stick to it. Find a church home and get rooted. Make it a priority like talking to that little boy on FT is. Get a therapist to work through your stress and trauma. You’re not alone. PUT THAT DAMN PHONE DOWN AND WORK. Follow instructions, be polite and be punctual. Say what you mean and mean what you say. People will take you more seriously. Get comfortable doing stuff alone. #bigcousin #advice #askasa #stewardwell