We often mistake love with so many other things. Lust, attraction, infatuation, attachment, unhealed trauma, etc. A good way to know when it’s the real thing is to keep an eye on just how desperate you feel without it, and if you’re willing to compromise healthy boundaries in your life in order to get or keep it. In my experience, when those types of compromises are made, chances are you’re not feeling, offering, or receiving actual love. Love does not run from boundaries. It thrives in them. My book #RadicalLove, and it’s audiobook baby, drop on June 28th for all y’all lookin for a deep/light/funny/sad/quick/long read. 🙃🙌 harpercollins