University mental health trained. A mum who lived 100+ missed days. I tracked every morning my daughter couldn’t get to school. I found 7 patterns nobody warned me about. None of them were what the school told me. The physical symptoms weren’t avoidance. They were alarm. The “fine on weekends” wasn’t manipulation. It was a nervous system in recovery. The harder we pushed, the worse it got. Every single time. She missed 100+ days of school. She got into her first choice university. Not because we pushed harder. Because we finally stopped - and learned what her body actually needed. If any of these 7 patterns sound like your mornings, comment TOOLKIT and I’ll send you the link directly. - Jules ❤️ #schoolrefusal #schoolsupoort #schoolanxiety #teenanxiety #anxiouskids