❌ Do NOT pay your kids for performance in youth sports 👉 Reward effort, focus, and courage — not outcomes 🧠That’s how kids learn confidence, resilience, and love for the game. 🏈🏀After the game = connection time- share with them what made you proud that you saw our on the court. Try to frame those things around your values “It made proud watching you have the courage to try out that step back jumper you’ve been working so hard on!” Reward them in that moment with a snack they’re excited about; to fuel them for the next game and show your love and support. halloffamebeef #ParentingWins #YouthSports #EffortOverOutcome #HallOfFameBeef #TeamFirst