T’is the eve of my 33rd year around the sun. Normally, I’m a big “celebration enthusiast”. But, I’m not feeling normal under the current circumstances. The last few months (or years?) have been weighing in heavy. I know that healing and self-learning is not linear. Some days are fabulous and others, a defeat. It’s a work-in-progress, folks. For a while I didn’t know how to describe this feeling either until I said it out loud to Matt the other day: “I’m just exhausted about making decisions.” Maybe to some this doesn’t sound relevant, but trust me when I tell you, the bags under my eyes didn’t just appear out of nowhere or because I’m getting older. So, in summary. As I step into another year of growth and learning, I continue to remind myself that yes the circumstances are challenging, yes I am grateful, and yes I can do hard stuff. But all in balance and with appropriate boundaries. Again, work-in-progress. I came across this STELLAR of a piece that literally made me sob (swipe r...