A man can both be enjoying the vibes andddd observing VERY closely for these things especially if he is looking for or open to a long term relationship. Men narrow in on the details when they care and ignore all when they just want a good time. This is why those of us who are used to casual dating or men who avoid commitment don’t think these things matter or WORSE think these things are negotiable or debatable. If you would rather not be tested or examined by a man I totally get it and I am sad to tell you that you will only ever have casual situations available to you. If you are ready to learn how to be the kind of woman men consider for commitment first whilst being true to yourself comment “Heart” or follow the link in my bio to join House Of Swans 🦢 #datingadviceforwomen #lovecoachforwomen #blackswanrelationshipacademy #blackswanlife