I had to rebuild my life from the ground up, at 28, with my kids watching me. And I haven’t been the same since. I didn’t directly choose that situation… but our choices played a role in how we got there. It wasn’t that we weren’t trying or that we didn’t care… We were just carrying more than we actually could for way too long, and when everything fell apart, we had to figure it out. That’s when I started facing parts of myself I didn’t see clearly before. the way I showed up. the patterns I kept repeating… and without even realizing it at the time, that’s what was weighing me down. That’s when the saying “nothing changes if nothing changes” really clicked for me. I realized it wasn’t just about what happened to me. It was about what I was allowing and what I was carrying that wasn’t even mine. And once I saw that, I couldn’t unsee it. So I started changing the way I showed up, what I allowed, and what I carried… because I realized if I didn’t, I was just gonna keep endin...