You don’t just attract people… you attract what feels familiar. And if you’ve been hurt before, familiar can look like inconsistency, chaos, or emotional unavailability. That’s why some connections feel so intense. And so hard to leave. It’s not just chemistry…it’s your wounds recognizing a match. But as you heal, your “type” changes. You stop being drawn to what hurts…and start choosing what actually feels like love. Does this resonate? Save this… and tell me what part hit you most. #drlauraberman #traumabonding #attachmenthealing #emotionalintelligence