* What does my nurse think when I say NO to something?* . #momshaming . You know it’s a thing. And you fear the consequences of the judgement brought upon you for every decision you make during pregnancy, labor, birth, and beyond. And your L&D nurse is just another person who’s there to judge you, right? . Wrong. It’s maternal mental health week and today’s “Notes from Your Nurse” reveals what your nurse is really thinking when you decline something at the hospital. . #realtalk from a real, local, anonymous Calgary labor and delivery nurse.