The amount of “advice” I was given while expecting the twins was less than settling — and often unsolicited. But the way that I prepare for my pregnancies, labor, and delivery allowed me to ignore the unwarranted pressures of what others expected.
What people expected:
▫️Early delivery
▫️Hospital birth
▫️NICU time
▫️Formula feeding
▫️C-section
▫️Scheduling the twins
With the right nutrition, body movements, and childbirth education, I:
🤍 Delivered at 38 weeks, 5 days
🤍 Home birth
🤍 Boys weighed 7.2 lbs and 6.4 lbs — no NICU time
🤍 Exclusively breastfeeding
🤍 Vaginal birth
🤍 Feeding and sleep schedules on demand as determined by each baby individually
While I believe people’s comments came from a place of love and support, it’s important to check in with the expecting mama to see if she even wants to hear those things. I’m grateful this wasn’t my first rodeo and I knew that I could rely on my education and body.
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