The word “refusal” puts the blame on your child. But when a nervous system is in crisis, there is no choice - there’s only survival mode. That’s why most behaviour-based strategies don’t work. They’re trying to change the behaviour without addressing what’s driving it. The School Refusal Recovery Toolkit works differently - it focuses on the nervous system first. Over 550+ families have used it to get their kids back to school. (I still use the term “school refusal” so that parents searching for help can find me - but I believe with everything in me that it’s the wrong word.) Comment TOOLKIT below and I’ll send you the link 💛 - Jules x #schoolrefusal #schoolanxiety #schoolcounselor #schooldropoff #childrensmentalhealth