A lot of people think healing means you’ll never feel triggered again.
That you’ll always feel calm, certain, and completely secure.
But that’s not really how it works.
Healing anxious attachment is less about never feeling…and more about how you respond when you do.
You still notice when someone pulls back. You still feel things deeply.
But you don’t abandon yourself in the process.
You don’t spiral the same way.
You don’t chase clarity that isn’t being offered.
You don’t carry responsibility that was never yours.
And that’s a big shift
When you read through all the slides, which one reflects where you are right now?
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