Wrong question. It’s not about who the “real mom” is, or who’s the dad, or who wears the pants in this relationship. We both do. All of it. Every day. We get asked this constantly — just for being two moms. Where’s the dad. Who’s really in charge. Which one of you does the “dad stuff.” Here’s our answer: there is no script, there never has been, and somehow five kids are thriving anyway. Happy Father’s Day to us. And to every mom out there who is also, quietly or loudly, the dad. You know who you are. 🛠️🍻🤍 Same-sex parents — what’s the most ridiculous version of this question you’ve gotten? Drop it below, I want to laugh with you. ↓ #twomoms #lgbtqfamily #fathersday #lesbianmoms #samesexparents