The delusion isn't wanting someone exceptional. The delusion is believing you don't have to become exceptional yourself. Everybody is free to have standards. But standards alone don't change reality. If you're expecting someone who's in the top fraction of a percent, ask yourself an honest question: What makes you equally rare? The life you want and the people you attract are influenced by what you consistently become, not just what you consistently desire. #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #HighStandards #SelfImprovement #Mindset Discipline SuccessMindset DatingAdvice Relationships RealityCheck