Sometimes the dream becomes so normal, we forget it was ever the dream.
There were years where this — this exact life, loud and full and ordinary — was the thing I wanted so badly I could barely say it out loud. IVF. Donor selection. Waiting. Wondering if any of it would work.
And now it’s just Wednesday.
Now it’s snack negotiations and twin feeds and somebody’s shoe that’s always missing and Shabbat candles every Friday and a house that is never, ever quiet.
I used to dream about this house. This noise. This impossible, exhausting, completely full life.
Now I just live in it.
And every once in a while — usually in the in-between moments, usually when no one’s watching — I remember.
This was always the dream.
Tell me: what’s something in your life right now that used to be the dream and is now just… Wednesday? ↓
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