So there's this subset of BDSM called finsub... ...and it's when people pay strangers to humiliate them, go shopping, or simply go about their lives. And unlike more traditional sugaring arrangements, there’s usually no sex involved. So what's in it for the finsubs themselves? In the latest edition of #MyTwoCents, columnist Charlotte Cowles spoke to three men who identify as finsubs to hear how they got into it, how much they spend, what’s in it for them, and why it can be hard to stop. Read on at the link in bio. Photo-Illustration: by The Cut; Photos: Getty Images