Understand the difference between a genuine connection and someone who's just using you for validation.
One wants to know who you are. They ask questions, listen, remember the little things, and care about your well-being.
The other only wants your attention, your time, your energy, and your reassurance because they're trying to fill the void of a broken ego.
One invests in you.
The other consumes you.
Pay attention to how people make you feel after you interact with them. Genuine connections leave you feeling seen, respected, and valued. Validation seekers leave you feeling drained, confused, and wondering why you're always the one giving.
Not everyone who wants your attention deserves your access.
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