the eldest daughter role isn’t for everyone! 🤣 it meant being responsible before i even understood what it meant. the role comes with pros: younger siblings, being dependable, empathetic, leadership qualities and cons: people pleasing, having to learn how to set boundaries the role chose me, i guess… but learning that choosing yourself isn’t selfish is still hard, albeit necessary! #eldestdaughter #eldestdaughtersyndrome #solflife #healing polo: @courtingtm