In this week's edition of #GoingThroughIt, a letter-writer is on the fence about attending their father's wedding with a woman he's been dating for less than a year — and who she herself has only met once. “The divorce has been tear-filled for me, and I’m not sure if I can hold it together that weekend,” they write. At the link in bio, read Amy Rose Spiegel's (verymuchso) thoughts on how to navigate the situation. Illustration by liakantro