ASHAMED OF YOUR FOOT OBSESSION? Maybe you have been in a relationship for years… and you still have not talked about your foot or shoe obsession. And now you are scared. My name is Markus M. Mey, author of the book “Am I Normal? Understanding Foot & Shoe Obsessions” available in different languages on Amazon. Lets get into it: You are scared she will ask: ‘Why did you never tell me?’ My advice? Do not invent a better story. Do not say it suddenly appeared yesterday. Do not pretend it is something completely new. Do not try to make the past disappear. Be honest. You can simply say: ‘I was afraid you would reject me.’ ‘I did not know how to explain it.’ ‘I did not want to lose you.’ ‘But I also do not want to hide this part of myself anymore.’ That is vulnerable. But it is real. And real gives your partner something to work with. A made-up story may feel safer in the moment… but it can create even more damage later. Because then the conversation is no longer about your obsession. It beco...