Why Women Often Don’t Understand This Obsession Why do so many women struggle to understand foot or shoe obsessions? Spoiler: because most women don’t experience attraction the same way men do. And that’s where the misunderstanding begins. Welcome to a new round of Funny Feet Fakts. My name is Markus M. Mey, author of the book “Am I Normal? Understanding Foot & Shoe Obsessions” available in Englisch and German on Amazon. Lets get into it: For many men, a single visual trigger can instantly create arousal. Feet. Shoes. High heels. Certain movements. It happens automatically. But for many women, attraction works differently. It’s often more connected to: emotion, context, chemistry, communication, and emotional tension. That’s why many women don’t instinctively understand how one specific detail can create such a strong reaction in men. Not because they’re judgmental. But because their own sexuality often works differently. And maybe that’s the important point: You’re both talking about ...