The Biggest Mistake Men With This Obsession Make They assume women experience shoes the same way they do. But most women don’t look at high heels and instantly feel sexual arousal. Welcome to a new round of Funny Feet Fakts. My name is Markus M. Mey, author of the book “Am I Normal? Understanding Foot & Shoe Obsessions” available in Englisch and German on Amazon. Lets get into it: For many women, shoes are about: style, confidence, presence, femininity. Not instant sexual stimulation. And this misunderstanding creates a lot of tension. Because the man thinks: ‘How can she not see how sexy this is?’ While the woman thinks: ‘Why is he so focused on this one detail?’ Same shoes. Completely different internal reactions. And the moment men understand this difference, communication becomes much easier. Because then it stops being: ‘Why don’t you get it?’ And becomes: ‘Okay… maybe we simply experience attraction differently.’ If this made sense to you, follow me for more content like this. #p...