Do you really have a boundary if the other person has to agree with it? A boundary isn’t something you need to convince someone else to accept. You don’t need a long explanation, a perfect reason or their approval for it to be valid. Sometimes the clearest boundary is simply: “I can’t do that anymore.” And that’s uncomfortable — especially when someone has benefited from you not having boundaries. But if your boundary depends on their agreement, it isn’t really a boundary. It’s a request. You are allowed to set boundaries that other people don’t like. #boundaries #selfawareness #relationshipadvice #leadership #peoplepleasing