A hand on your shoulder and your whole body locks. A hug that should feel warm feels like a trap. You want connection but your body treats touch as threat.
That's your nervous system remembering. Touch was paired with something unsafe. Your body encoded it before you had words.
Healing isn't forcing tolerance. It's giving your body evidence that this touch is different.
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