when it comes to saying ANY type of word determined to be a slur; in group endearment and outgroup attacks are two very different things. society teaches us which we are a part of and which we are not, to use it as part of the out group to a member of the in group is often a choice based on entitlement. FOLLOW themixedmessagepod - FULL EP in BIO. . #identity #blasian #mixed #multicultural