If you're not changing it, you're choosing it. If you're in a relationship with someone who's immature, refuses to acknowledge reality, and can't have a productive conversation about your concerns... And you keep expecting them to magically change? That's not their problem anymore. That's yours. People show you who they are through their patterns, not their promises. If someone isn't willing to mature, communicate, take accountability, or actually work on the relationship, you have two choices: Accept it. Or leave it. What you don't get to do is stay, complain about the same behavior for five years, and act surprised when nothing changes. Your partner is responsible for their behavior. But you're responsible for your decision to keep participating in it. Sometimes the hardest truth in a relationship is realizing: You aren't waiting for them to change. You're choosing not to leave. And that's a decision too. #Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #Accountability #SelfAwarene...